Helping a Friend

L is known as the super nice guy in our circle. But he got into some deep shit this year, trying to earn quick bucks illegally. That will never work so he ended up getting himself into hell lots of debts. 

He owes me about 1.3k and today, he suddenly called me for another 2k. Before I even consulted Jo, I transferred almost immediately. I am not sure is it because I have the bad habit of not saying no, or simply because I trust this friend of mine too much.

I’m always stuck in the middle about lending money to people. I can never say no. Jo’s only advice was that “lend with the thinking that you can never get it back”. If they return, good news. But if they don’t, make sure you’re fine with it.

just hope he can clear his shit up because i dont think i can help forever.

or maybe we just shouldn’t grow up. Shit happens, hell lots of shit.

24/25 May – 100th Day Celebration

(very into this song!)


(the ‘anniversary’ is a little misleading when it should just be our 100th day celebration)

Jo and I actually start dating earlier but we didn’t had any official dates, so Jo fixed it at 14 March. 🙂 This celebration came just right in time, especially when I’m in too much stress.

Dad is trying to get 15k from me again to purchase the new car. Fair enough, I need the car as much so it makes sense that I need to contribute a little but I don’t think it’s the right time to get a new car. Moreover, it’s 15k we’re talking about and it just feels like not only do I need to support my own extravagent spendings, I need to support my family’s.

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I sent Toby home on Sunday and his pawrents are a male couple (straightforwardly, gays). I’ve always been in touch with CC (assuming it’s the ‘boyfriend’) the whole time and my helper was the one that accepted Toby while I wasn’t at home. So she was the one that packed his stuff. Apparently, she left out a food bowl of his. Anyway, they wanted to meet me on Sunday at town area to get the bowl back but it wasn’t convenient for me to leave the house since my helper went for her weekly enrichment classes. I told them that I couldn’t make it and offered to do a FREE courier service (that cost $7). I went ahead and arranged it as shown above.

Fast forward till 10:30pm, the courier service was nowhere to be found. His cellphone was switched off and I was contacting CC the whole time, saying that I have no idea what was going on either. THEN, the couple decided to play “good cop bad cop” with me. As I was texting CC to be patient with me while I try to get hold of the courier service, his petty ‘girlfriend’ decided to text me;

What’s with clients and the word “unprofessional”? I did sound a little defensive but that’s just me being me and all this happened while I was having a bad headache. MOREOVER, IT’S JUST A DAMN BOWL! -.- I don’t see the urgency of it when it’s already passed meal time, and it wasn’t the end of the day yet. I gave the driver the benefit of doubt that his phone died and he must be on the way. The fact is I DID MY PART! I arranged the courier and the guy wouldnt steal the damn bowl or anything. -.-” Neither could I control the delivery process. ARGH.

I’m a huge supporter of LGBT and I love gay people, always think that they are super nice people. But sometimes, they really can be a huge pain in the ass.. the bitchy ones.

This whole thing happened while I was with Jo. He’s the only one that could somehow calm me down when I’m stressed up and angry at the same time. lol.

so so so mad!




My dragon boy was down with hives. 😦 It all happened ever since he ate some other dog’s NTUC pasta leftovers. Moral of the story: Do not anyhow feed junk food to your dogs. But the vet said that since the pasta was 3 days ago, it is weird that it isn’t subsiding. It may be due to another factor. But there isn’t anything out of the norm that I can think of…. except for that damn pasta. 9 years with him and this is the first time I see him having an allergic reaction. We’ve fed him organic pasta previously and he was fine.

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Spa Day!


One of my favorite morning is to wake up with this cutie beside me. I love my 2 dogs but Suarez is a bonus. haha. Till date, I think that his ex-owners were mad enough to abandon him in Dubai.

I head down as usual, doing my own things only to receive a call from Spa Vintage that my appointment was cancelled. -.-” I’ve been looking forward to this massage for ages and I started to search for alternatives (obviously all the good and affordable ones like Adeva Spa and Z Spa were all fully booked). I finally settled with the nearest one – Spa Lifestyle.

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